最可怕的男人,不是家暴,不是出轨,而是……

每个女人都想嫁给一个好男人。很多人认为男人有钱,不在乎,伤害自己,是个好人。

事实上,这并不完全正确。在婚姻中,这两种男人的问题比出轨更可怕。它会慢慢消灭一个女人的精神,把她困在婚姻的围困中,让它无法外出,只能愚蠢地吃小檗碱。很难说。

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不要寻求进步

我见过一个婚姻调解计划,一对小夫妻,刚结婚一年,他的妻子正在离婚,列出了一堆臭人。

“你说你是一个男人,每天都吃我,喝我,不要这样做。找工作很难,你仍然会解雇老板。”

那个男人反驳道:“这能怪我吗?老板每天都在负责我,我说八次,我等不及了!”

“另一件事,你不是太累或太脏。你一年没赚钱,你已经改变了8次工作。”

那个男人突然想出了这样一句话:“哪个男人没有小问题,我没有走出轨道!”

该男子出轨,是一名浮渣男性。但这个男人是不是出轨了,这是一个好人吗?女人应该感恩和满足,并忍受他的所有缺点吗?

可以具体和忠诚,是不是婚姻的事情?如果两个人结婚,如果没有单身和忠诚,这种婚姻的意义是什么?

男人不具体,是男性的败类;因为炉渣的性质没有改变,所以炉渣男性是单身或渣滓男性。

在婚姻中,垄断是必要的,但它不能抵消和掩盖一个人的暴力,自私和缺乏进步。

爱是不够喝的,婚姻是真正的大米和油,如果一个男人只能带你吃方便面和呛人,那么这样的“好”并不重要。

“对你好”不仅体现在口头上,而且还有物质上的支持。一个真正“善于你”的人,他是自我激励的,会为你努力工作,努力工作,让你的日子慢慢好起来,让你对未来的生活充满希望。

男人说女人贫穷,爱富裕,但我们必须知道她们不怕贫穷,不怕苦难,害怕对方没有动力,害怕与他同住,但越来越不看希望,最后死了。变得绝望。

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没有采取行动

在电影《原谅他77次》中,笔记本中的女性伊娃,记录了她男友亚当的所有经历,伤害了她77次。

亚当正在做些什么来伤害她并不是什么大不了的事。这只不过是夫妻之间每天的争吵。

问题的根源不在于他所做的,而是他的幼稚使两个人之间的差距越来越大。

在他三十多岁的时候,亚当也把他童年时代的父母当作自己的伤口。

和他未来的岳父一起踢足球,他因为一件小事而与另一方争吵。

每次他辩解,无论伊娃如何表达他对他的呼吁,他都是敷衍了事,从未关注过它。

有人说:“寻找一个男人就是要找到一种责任感。如果没有任何责任,它会让你尝到各种各样的苦涩,让自己不像女人一样生活。”

亚当是一个没有责任感和责任感的典型人。他只有自己的心。无论发生什么事,他都想逃避,并考虑将责任推到另一方。

结婚必须嫁给一个有责任的男人,也许他没有很多钱,但他会尽力照顾你,不要让你受伤,给你足够的安全感。

A man who has the responsibility to protect you is perfect, and will not let you face the ups and downs of the outside world alone, giving you a safe and happy life.

《好先生》There is a line in the sentence: "I am her boyfriend, I have the ability to let her eat spicy and spicy, no ability I have put my skin on her skin to shelter her from the wind!"

A really good man is not to push everything to his wife, but to take on the responsibility and responsibility of a man. When there is a problem, he dares to face it.

A man who is responsible is the warmest reliance of a woman. Therefore, marrying must marry a man with responsibility.

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Zhu Yin said, if you are married to someone, look at yourself in the mirror. If you find that the people inside are beautiful every day, you are married to someone. This is the love in marriage.

A good marriage can make a person, and a bad marriage can destroy a person.

A good marriage will bring positive and positive power to each other, and the courage and hope of continuing to go on will make each other better and better.

And a bad marriage, the longer you live, the more you can't see hope, the more you can't grow up in this marriage, it will erase the bright smile on your face and become a hindrance to your life.

Love and marriage, loyalty and loyalty are a must. But apart from being single-minded, we can really ask for a little higher and a little more. To love, you can also order bread.

Be sure to polish your eyes before you get married, and observe and find a person who is self-motivated, able to support him, have the responsibility to protect his life, give you unlimited hope, let you have confidence, and go hand in hand.

May you find that person, may you not be alone in this life, may you have a little luck in your future life, quiet years, and warmth.

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